Here is my personal list, which I like to reflect on, when I start to feel on top of things personally, and want to help out others.
- Do their laundry.
- Fold their clean clothes.
- Wash their dishes.
- Empty their dishwasher.
- Take their bins out.
- Bring their bins back in.
- Vacuum their living room.
- Sweep their kitchen floor.
- Wipe down their kitchen bench.
- Clean their bathroom sink.
- Cook them dinner.
- Cook extra portions they can freeze.
- Drop off soup when they are sick.
- Make them a cup of tea.
- Make them breakfast.
- Pack them a lunch.
- Pick up groceries for them.
- Buy them milk, bread, or eggs.
- Refill their water bottle.
- Bring them snacks when you visit.
- Drive them to an appointment.
- Pick them up from work.
- Drop them at the train station.
- Walk with them to their car at night.
- Help them carry shopping bags.
- Carry heavy boxes for them.
- Help them move furniture.
- Pick up a parcel for them.
- Return something to the shop for them.
- Post a letter or parcel for them.
- Walk their dog.
- Feed their pet.
- Clean their pet’s water bowl.
- Water their plants.
- Mow their lawn.
- Pull weeds from their garden.
- Rake leaves from their driveway.
- Sweep their front step.
- Bring in their mail.
- Check their house while they are away.
- Babysit for one hour.
- Read a book to their child.
- Help their child with homework.
- Pack a child’s school bag.
- Make a child’s lunchbox.
- Take their child to the park.
- Hold the baby while they shower.
- Change a nappy.
- Wash baby bottles.
- Tidy toys off the floor.
- Send a message saying, “I’m going to the shops. Need anything?”
- Call them when they are lonely.
- Sit with them during a hard appointment.
- Wait with them at the hospital.
- Bring them a coffee before work.
- Drop off flowers from the supermarket.
- Write them a short card.
- Send them a photo that will make them smile.
- Invite them for a short walk.
- Sit beside them without forcing conversation.
- Help them fill out a form.
- Help them book an appointment.
- Make a phone call for them.
- Help them write an email.
- Proofread their resume.
- Print documents for them.
- Scan documents for them.
- Help them reset a password.
- Fix a small tech issue on their phone.
- Show them how to use an app.
- Share your class notes.
- Explain a confusing topic to them.
- Quiz them before a test.
- Help them organise their study folder.
- Send them a useful article.
- Cover one small work task for them.
- Bring them into a group conversation.
- Save them a seat.
- Introduce them to someone new.
- Give them credit for their idea.
- Let someone go ahead of you in line.
- Hold the door open.
- Help a stranger with directions.
- Pick up something someone dropped.
- Give up your seat on public transport.
- Help someone carry a pram up stairs.
- Let another driver merge.
- Put a stray trolley back.
- Pick up rubbish from the footpath.
- Return a lost wallet, card, or phone.
- Donate clean clothes you no longer wear.
- Donate unopened pantry food.
- Drop blankets at an animal shelter.
- Leave a positive review for a small business.
- Buy from a local stall.
- Pay for someone’s coffee.
- Leave coins in a parking meter.
- Give someone your unused shopping bag.
- Share an umbrella.
- Bring someone painkillers, tissues, or throat lozenges when they are unwell.